Fairytale.

To: Us Girls

We wrap ourselves around fairy tales, hoping and dreaming that our prince charming will come about, but in reality, we are only getting our hopes up and we all know it. A friend once told me, "90% of the male population thinks like this.. #1) Men love blowjobs #2) Men don't care if your Cumming (we could figure this one out.) #3) No women is "Worth" anything; there are always more fish in the sea #4) Guys don't care about your feelings, they are trying to get themselves off" I mean, if you think about this, there are probably more real statements about men but I only have four for right now and I believe this. You know why? This came from a good guy friend of mine who doesn't sugar coat things, who tells me how it is and will always tell me how a guy really thinks and in the end, he's right about everything.
What I am trying to say is, what's the point of giving our all to a guy who just wants all of that? When we want so much more than that. Stop watching One Tree Hill, where Nathan Scott, the bad boy of town, falls in love with the unpopular girl and he changes. That will NEVER happen, get it through that head of yours. That is called "Acting" and "Screen Writing". Stop watching Gossip Girl where Charles turns out to be the decent guy in the end and fights for the one he loves. That will never happen, or like all of the Nickolas Spark books/movies, yes he is a fantastic writer and the movies always turn into a tear jerker in the end... but will that ever happen to us? The billion girls in the planet who watch these movies or TV shows hoping and praying one day we will find a guy like Nathan Scott, or Charles, or the main actors in the Nickolas Spark movies, because in reality, we are not like a movie, this is the real world where the men want to get in your pants, tell you things that they know you want to hear, make you fall in love with them and then rip our hearts out and they go off to the next...
I'm not saying true love isn't out there, because I do have that hope inside my heart that there is suppose to be one man and one woman who was put on this earth to find each other and to fall in love, but at twenty years old, with all my other friends in serious relationships, having babies and getting married, well maybe its just not my time and its theirs. All I'm saying is, we shouldn't have to rush things or try to hold something together when we know its falling apart. We just need to start living day to day, and enjoying our life. You know, maybe when we stop looking and years from know or months or days from now, maybe that guy will appear when we least expect it. Just stop giving your heart away to someone who doesn't deserve it.